5 signs that your relationship is imperfect but perfectly working
Everybody wants to be perfect in relationship,
though sadly, nobody is. It’s impossible to have mastery on this aspect. Whereas
our traditional experts in form of slutty friends, grumpy parents, suspicious relatives
or liberal cousins give us valuable inputs, a common misconception about a
working relationship lies within its definition – do you relate yourself with
someone you love? Actually nobody does. Here are five signs that your
relationship is imperfect but perfectly working.
1. We
fight too much
This imperfection is like cement in a stunning
architecture. Vicious fights or violent arguments cemented with wild passion
for each other ensure a hard-to-break relationship. But remember to fight with
words, not swords.
2. We
lie to each other
Trust is almost like a salt in a recipe. Without it
no relation works. But contrary to popular belief, lies laden with care make a
relationship better, often crazy enough to fall in love with each other again
and again. Partners, who lie to each other for saving from being hurt, are
often best couples. Lie isn’t opposite to trust, mistrust is.
3. We
have nothing to talk
Means you guys need sex, not a divorce or break-up.
Sometimes a few days silence is urgently required to express your love not
through your mouths, but whole bodies. When body will be tired, don’t worry,
your words will fill in place.
4. We
flirt with others
Flirting has several connotations, but the best
among them is that, flirting helps to rekindle lost passion. Nobody wants a
partner with blunt passion with awkward moves. A term is popular in circle,
‘Healthy Flirting’. So if you guys want best performances from each other, you
do practice. Even with others. But in your own comfort level.
5. We
don’t have sex anymore
This sounds bad. But sex isn’t main ingredient in
your recipe. Happiness is. Probably you guys are maturing fast and you need no
more sex to retain your relationship. Remember our parents. We can’t even
relate sex with them. But they are great couples.
So don’t worry. You both have selected each other
among billions of people. You can make your relationship dazzling and sizzling.
The key-phrase is ‘not to take each other for granted’.
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